Your Baby Is Asleep, So Why Can’t You Sleep Too?
You finally get your baby down for the night (or at least for a few hours), but instead of drifting into much-needed rest, you find yourself staring at the ceiling, mind racing, body exhausted, but sleep just won’t come.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Postpartum insomnia is real, and it’s more common than you think.
The good news? There are practical ways to manage it and get your body back into a healthy sleep rhythm.
1. Why Does Postpartum Insomnia Happen?
Many new moms experience sleep disturbances, even when their baby sleeps. Here’s why:
a. Hormonal Shifts
During pregnancy, estrogen and progesterone rise significantly. After childbirth, these hormone levels drop drastically, impacting melatonin (your sleep hormone) and making it harder to fall asleep.
b. Anxiety & Mental Overload
New moms constantly worry: Is my baby breathing? Did I feed enough? What if I sleep too deeply and don’t wake up? This hyper-alert state keeps your nervous system on edge, preventing deep sleep.
c. Adrenal Fatigue & Cortisol Spikes
Your body is in recovery mode, and disrupted sleep cycles can lead to excess cortisol production (your stress hormone), making you feel wired but exhausted.
d. Overstimulation from Screens & Caffeine
Checking your phone, scrolling through social media, or drinking chai late at night interferes with melatonin production, making it harder for your body to transition into rest mode.
2. Simple Ways to Improve Postpartum Sleep
The goal isn’t just to sleep more—it’s to sleep better. Try these practical, science-backed solutions:
a. Reset Your Sleep-Wake Cycle with Sunlight
Expose yourself to natural daylight early in the morning. This helps regulate your circadian rhythm and supports melatonin production at night.
b. Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine
- Dim the lights an hour before bed.
- Take a warm shower to relax your body.
- Practice deep breathing or guided meditation .
c. Cut Down on Stimulants
- Reduce caffeine after 3 PM.
- Avoid looking at screens (phones, TV, tablets) at least 30 minutes before bed.
- Instead of scrolling through social media, try reading or listening to soft music.
d. Optimise Your Sleep Environment
- Keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet.
- Use blackout curtains to eliminate artificial light.
- Try white noise or calming sounds to block distractions.
e. Ask for Help (And Don’t Feel Guilty About It!)
- If possible, let your partner, family member, or a trusted person take over some night shifts.
- Nap during the day whenever you can—your body needs recovery.
- Consider guided postpartum support from experts.
3. When to Seek Professional Help
If your postpartum insomnia persists for more than a few weeks, or if you experience:
- Extreme exhaustion, even after naps.
- Persistent anxiety, racing thoughts, or panic attacks.
- Mood swings, feelings of hopelessness, or postpartum depression symptoms.
Then it’s time to reach out for support. Sleep deprivation can take a serious toll on your mental and physical health, but the right guidance can make all the difference.
Final Thoughts: You Deserve Rest, Too
Motherhood is beautiful, but it’s also exhausting. If postpartum insomnia is making your recovery harder, don’t ignore it.
Your sleep is just as important as your baby’s. By making small but powerful changes, you can reclaim restful nights and feel like yourself again.
