Let’s Talk About What No One Talks About.
If you’ve ever had questions about your body, sex, or reproductive health but felt too embarrassed to ask, you’re not alone.
In India, conversations around sexual health for women are often surrounded by stigma, shame, or silence. Many women hesitate to ask doctors about their concerns—whether it’s about birth control, infections, painful sex, or libido changes—fearing judgment or lack of understanding.
But your women’s sexual health is just as important as your mental and physical health. The more you know, the better you can take care of your body—without guilt, fear, or misinformation.
So let’s break the silence. Here are the answers to the most common sexual health questions Indian women are afraid to ask.
1. Is It Normal to Have Pain During Sex?
Sex shouldn’t be painful. If it is, there could be underlying reasons—and solutions.
Possible Causes of Painful Sex (Dyspareunia):
- Vaginal Dryness – Common due to hormonal changes, stress, or birth control use.
- Lack of Foreplay – Rushing can lead to insufficient lubrication and discomfort.
- Infections (UTIs, Yeast, or STIs) – Can cause burning, irritation, or deep pain.
- PCOS or Endometriosis – Conditions like PCOS and fibroids can make sex painful.
- What to do: Try lubricants, increase foreplay, and if pain persists, consult a doctor. Ignoring it won’t make it go away.
Need help? Speak to a gynecologist discreetly—no awkward questions, just expert advice.
2. How Do I Know If My Vaginal Discharge Is Normal?
Vaginal discharge is a natural way your body keeps itself clean, but changes in color, smell, or texture could indicate a problem.
- Normal discharge:
- Clear or white
- No strong odor
- Changes slightly during your cycle
When to see a doctor:
- Yellow, green, or grey discharge (could be an infection)
- Strong fishy smell (possible bacterial vaginosis)
- Thick, white, cottage cheese-like discharge (likely a yeast infection)
- Burning or itching with discharge (could be an STI or imbalance)
Don’t ignore unusual changes—early treatment prevents bigger issues.
3. Can I Get Pregnant If It’s My First Time?
- It’s your first time
- You’re on your period
- You “pull out” before ejaculation
If you’re not ready for pregnancy, consider exploring birth control options that are safe and effective.
4. Is the Morning-After Pill Safe?
Yes, emergency contraception (like the i-pill) is safe, but it’s not meant for regular use.
Things to know:
- Works best when taken within 24 hours of unprotected sex.
- Does NOT cause abortion—it prevents pregnancy before it starts.
- May cause temporary side effects like nausea, headache, or delayed periods.
- For regular contraception, consider birth control pills, IUDs, or other long-term methods.
Confused about contraception? Book an online consultation to find the safest option for your body.
5. Do Women Really Need STI Tests?
Many Indian women assume that STIs (sexually transmitted infections) only happen to “certain types of people”—but that’s a dangerous myth.
- STIs can affect ANY sexually active person—married or unmarried.
- Many STIs show NO symptoms at first.
- Left untreated, they can cause infertility, pregnancy complications, and chronic pain.
- When should you get tested?
- If you have a new partner
- If you’ve had unprotected sex
- If you notice burning, itching, or unusual discharge
Early detection = easy treatment. Book a private, at-home STI consultation now.
References:
- https://www.teenvogue.com/story/vaginal-discharge-might-be-trying-to-tell-you
- https://juliecare.co/pages/learn/pull-out-method
- https://www.verywellhealth.com/when-should-i-see-a-doctor-about-a-vaginal-discharge-3522664
- https://www.advancedwomenshealth.ca/blog/painful-intercourse-understanding-dyspareunia-and-how-to-find-relief
